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by Simon's Church » 16 Jul 2012 16:43
by Royal Lady » 16 Jul 2012 16:43
Simon's Church This has been an unmitigated disaster from start to finish. Good to see Green, Slammed and RL taking the fight to STAR's doorstep
by Simon's Church » 16 Jul 2012 16:44
by Royal Lady » 16 Jul 2012 16:46
by Zaretsky » 16 Jul 2012 16:47
Arch You're a fool if you think the majority of contributors to this thread have any interest in being reasonable about this. Leave it alone and it'll go away eventually.
by Royal Lady » 16 Jul 2012 16:51
by southbank1871 » 16 Jul 2012 17:19
Cypry Well I for one will not be renewing...I wouldn't normally discuss the content of a PM, but I've had no response to my reply since I sent it 3 days ago, and need to vent spleen...
I had a PM on Friday from STAR, effectively telling me that the situation was my fault, apparently I should have known about the history of these events without needing to be told. It was also made clear that the club and Brian personally are "very upset" - again, the implication being that my actions, and my actions alone have upset them, and STAR now have a lot to do to repair the relationship.
Finally I was told that STAR have nothing against me "because you have shown remorse" - again the implication is that all this is my fault.
What I object to is the fact that STAR seem to want to lay all responsibility at my door for this, and take no responsibility whatsoever themselves. As I've said repeatedly, if we'd been told the forum was "between these four walls" I'd have honoured that...
I don't believe for a minute that Brian is genuinely "very upset" - I'm sure he has far more important things to worry about, but I'll be meeting him in a couple of weeks, so I'll ask and apologise if necessary - let's hope STAR are telling the truth or they'll look very silly...
by Nick Shorey my Lord! » 16 Jul 2012 17:28
Cypry Well I for one will not be renewing...I wouldn't normally discuss the content of a PM, but I've had no response to my reply since I sent it 3 days ago, and need to vent spleen...
I had a PM on Friday from STAR, effectively telling me that the situation was my fault, apparently I should have known about the history of these events without needing to be told. It was also made clear that the club and Brian personally are "very upset" - again, the implication being that my actions, and my actions alone have upset them, and STAR now have a lot to do to repair the relationship.
Finally I was told that STAR have nothing against me "because you have shown remorse" - again the implication is that all this is my fault.
What I object to is the fact that STAR seem to want to lay all responsibility at my door for this, and take no responsibility whatsoever themselves. As I've said repeatedly, if we'd been told the forum was "between these four walls" I'd have honoured that...
I don't believe for a minute that Brian is genuinely "very upset" - I'm sure he has far more important things to worry about, but I'll be meeting him in a couple of weeks, so I'll ask and apologise if necessary - let's hope STAR are telling the truth or they'll look very silly...
by Fox Talbot » 16 Jul 2012 17:45
Royal Lady Exactly Zaretsky - well put.
by pea » 16 Jul 2012 17:47
Fox TalbotRoyal Lady Exactly Zaretsky - well put.
In order to have more bite we'll need bigger teeth. Especially now RFC is in the PL and needing to pay less attention to fans.
Where will we get these teeth? What will they consist of? What would make RFC listen to us and bend to our whims?
Tricky one, given the club's current success.
by Zaretsky » 16 Jul 2012 18:03
Fox TalbotRoyal Lady Exactly Zaretsky - well put.
In order to have more bite we'll need bigger teeth. Especially now RFC is in the PL and needing to pay less attention to fans.
Where will we get these teeth? What will they consist of? What would make RFC listen to us and bend to our whims?
Tricky one, given the club's current success.
by Ian Herring » 16 Jul 2012 18:20
Magic_Shovel It seems there are 2 conversations running here, firstly aorund what happened with OP, and what is STAR's actual role (I have read their documentation, and to be fair, am not sure their actions echo their publicised remit).
In order to clear this all up may I suggest a "STAR forum" along the same lines of the fans forum, whereby STAR Board members can answer questions from existing STAR members, as well as those who wish to understand the workings of the organisation fully (be that as prospective members or merely RFC fans, who may or may not want to be members, but have questions)?
It would be far easier to set up than a "Fans Forum" for STAR as they will not have to invite any Reading FC players or management, just be there themselves (obviously we know they are busy people, but I'm sure there must be scheduled meetings for the STAR team, surely one of them could be re-arranged to accompdate this), and open the invitation out to all (obviously numbers permitting etc..)
The rules and regulations as to what can, or can't, be reported subsequently can be distributed beforehand (online or otherwise), we all then can will have the opportunity to understand the workings of the organisation and get answers to the questions posted on here and elsewhere.
I feel this is would be far better way to handle the (mis)understanding of STAR's role than on this forum, or by dropping into the STAR portakabin on a one on one basis, as at least we can then all have the opportunity to discuss at once (subject to the aforementioned regulations obviously).
Just a thought . . . . over to you STAR . . . .
by westendgirl » 16 Jul 2012 18:31
ZaretskyFox TalbotRoyal Lady Exactly Zaretsky - well put.
In order to have more bite we'll need bigger teeth. Especially now RFC is in the PL and needing to pay less attention to fans.
Where will we get these teeth? What will they consist of? What would make RFC listen to us and bend to our whims?
Tricky one, given the club's current success.
True. And TBH, to start with, just a bit more bark would nice! The teeth would take time. You'd need 2 sides to it - a kind of practical service, arguing the case for fans with particular concerns/issues e.g. legal advice, lodging complaints. Then the other side as more of a campaigning set of activities on key issues, including club transparency and where consensus can be reached. This will then offer space for collaboration with other supporters' organisations (from other clubs). Where it can't be reached, you open spaces for discussion and debate. It can be radical without being unreasonable. And you always leave a space at the table of debate for club but you don't let it be the only one that sets the agenda. And you make sure you have a democratic and open constitution.
The bite ultimately comes from proving your worth and your independence. Even if you can't move mountains, having a dissenting voice is worthy in itself.
by moo » 16 Jul 2012 18:35
melonheadTBM
by Bandini » 16 Jul 2012 18:58
TFFblindedbythelights starliason just logged on and off again![]()
Maybe STAR will work now
by SLAMMED » 16 Jul 2012 19:05
moomelonheadTBM
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by Maguire » 16 Jul 2012 19:21
SLAMMED What's even worse, they have an equal gender ratio.
by blindedbythelights » 16 Jul 2012 19:38
by RoyalBlue » 16 Jul 2012 19:58
TBMRoyal Lady I haven't checked their website for a while - I might go and have a nosey to see who holds what position these days - it's almost always the same people every year - I'm surprised there are no younger fans offering their services to be a board member.
Here you go
Gerry McGreevy - Treasurer
by blindedbythelights » 16 Jul 2012 20:07
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