Extra Significance for me

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Extra Significance for me

by Aubery Boyce » 18 May 2011 11:16

After a short illness my dad passed away on Sunday AM aged 65. He was a lifelong Royals fan having started to attend matches in the 50s as a small boy and was as obsessed with the club as much when he died as he ever was.

I spent my early childhood being told stories of Robin Friday, Steve Death, Maurice Edleston, Steve Hetzke, Neil Webb, Kerry Dixon, to name but a few. He absolutley loved Reading Football Club.

When i was old enough to see over the South Bank wall, he managed to persuade my mum to be allowed to take me too. I'm sure he'd never realise that he was directly responsible from that moment on for my total and utter obsession with Football and in particular the Royals. First game was in Oct 84. 2nd game was the Fireworks night match v NZ with George Best, Martin Peters, Steve Death and the Hofmeister Bear to name but a few!!

We were regulars in the old Family Enclosure at the Tilehurst end of the South Bank in the mid-late eighties, as well as the odd away game when he got permission from the Duchess and when he could skip out of work!

Ill health and mobiliity issues had meant he could no longer attend games but we chatted after every single game for me to de-brief him on the match, who had played well, who was rubbish, general nonsense really.

At the end of the Leicester game in the 106 year, I rang him and simply held my phone up in the air so he could hear the celebrations and general melee as that was the next best thing to him being there.

Anyway point is.... Last nights game meant so much to me. He would have absolutley loved watching that on TV, ringing me to discuss and annoying my mum by insisting watching it again this morning no doubt. I had so many texts from people saying they were thinking of him knowing how pleased he would have been.

Gutted he wasnt around to see it last night and gutted he wont see us at Wembley again.

But pleased as punch the the team pulled out a performance like that last night when I needed it most! Fingers crossed they can do me and dad proud at Wembley too! :-)

URZZZ.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Svlad Cjelli » 18 May 2011 11:18

What a stunning post. Brings it all home.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by southbank1871 » 18 May 2011 11:20

Fair play AB, that's what it's all about really.

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by super darren caskey » 18 May 2011 11:21

Good post.Sorry to hear about your dad.I am sure the royals will do us all proud in the final whatever the outcome..urzz

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Row Z Royal » 18 May 2011 11:27

Sorry to hear that Aubers. It's all the little 'annoying' habits like only talking about the football for hours that'll be missed the most.


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by leicsRoyal » 18 May 2011 11:35

Great post AB,

Sorry to hear of your loss.

I've no doubt it has made many of us think of family that have passed their love of RFC onto ourselves and it's nights like last night that we thank them for that.
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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Focher » 18 May 2011 11:39

Great post Boyce, im sure your dad will bring Reading that extra we'll need to win the final, like reaching down into Wembley, slightly deflecting the ball off a defender and wrong footing the keeper in the 94th minute. All he needs to do is a small flick, nobody will see.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Svlad Cjelli » 18 May 2011 11:40

And this is the kind of post that ought to be read by every football club owner and everyone running the game.

A football club is simply a business and should be legislated and administered as one? Bollocks to that!

When did you ever see anyone write with such sincerity about how their dad introduced them to shopping at Tesco or Sainsburys?

A football clubs is so much more than "just a business" to so many people - people who are there before any owner comes along and will still be there long after any owner has left.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by brendywendy » 18 May 2011 11:45

top stuff aubs. Really sorry for your loss m8.glad the lads could do it for your dad last night. Especially since he was indirectly responsible for me becoming a reading fan,cos it was you who took me to my first ever game at elm park. RIP. And cmon urzzz.


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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Percy's Rocket » 18 May 2011 11:50

This is indeed what football is really and truly all about. Nothing else like it.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by exileinleeds » 18 May 2011 11:53

Sincere condolences on your loss, and a wonderful post.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by SouthDownsRoyal » 18 May 2011 11:53

Wish the players could read this thread.

Great post and my sympathy for your loss.

Hope the boys can do us all especially your dad proud.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Stuka » 18 May 2011 11:58

Superb! Puts it in perspective. A fitting end to the season for your late father.


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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Sarah Star » 18 May 2011 12:03

This is the sort of thing I think about when I hear that quote "football isn't a matter of life and death... it's more important than that". People laugh at that, but sometimes it is in ways you've never thought of before.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by nailseabiscuitman » 18 May 2011 12:06

Really sorry to hear of your loss and hope last night helps you through the pain. Was thinking about my old mate Pete who sat next to me from day one at the Madstad and passed away at the beginning of the season. Lets hope they are cheering us on together and we get a result at Wembley for them.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Royal Lady » 18 May 2011 12:21

Sorry for your loss Aubrey Boyce - but a great post - and reminiscent of that wonderful thread when we got promotion to the Prem and people were remembering their friends and loved ones who had passed on and missed out.

Maybe you should send that post to the club - get Brian to put it in the dressing room at Wembley. I'm so proud of this team and what McD has achieved with them - they all pull together when needed and last night was an excellent example of that. They'll be wanting to do it for Chris Armstrong too.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Blue Hooped Moose » 18 May 2011 12:24

Aubery Boyce Gutted he wasnt around to see it last night and gutted he wont see us at Wembley again.

Similar situation to me, and echo this part completely :cry: :)

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Seal » 18 May 2011 12:27

Absolutely sums up what football is about for me. Much more than just the game, it's about sharing experiences with friends, family and loved ones.

I'm sure there are many father-son relationships out there where talking about the Reading match is the best communication they ever have. I know for one that's the case for me.

Top post, thank you for sharing and many, many condolences.

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Re: Extra Significance for me

by SouthDownsRoyal » 18 May 2011 12:36

Royal Lady Maybe you should send that post to the club - get Brian to put it in the dressing room at Wembley.


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Re: Extra Significance for me

by Big Foot » 18 May 2011 12:39

Great post

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