by Brum Royal » 05 Jan 2015 15:51
by Hoop Blah » 05 Jan 2015 16:28
West Stand ManJC Isn't the truth of the matter the fact that dissent could be stopped almost instantly if refs adopted a hardline policy of showing a yellow whenever it occured?
Yes, so long as the authorities backed them up.
The more general point is a valid one too. Good referee management is a skill that rugby players learn early and most footballers appear to ignore. Harps was a master, he played the referees really well and it had a positive impact for us. Antagonising the ref is not often a good plan, getting him onside while robustly (politely) putting your case is.
Ian Royal I see the difference professionally all the time. And you don't get to be a professional ref by being a shrinking violet who'll get bullied easily.
Acting the twat and being aggressive harms your chances of a good outcome. Being polite but assertive with a sense of humour will take you a long way.
by Mr Angry » 05 Jan 2015 16:33
Schards#2 In 40 years of watching Reading, that was the worst performance in winning an away game I've ever seen,
Without Murray we are hopelessly lacking up front, it's imperative we either sign him or a decent alternative.
Steady defensively though
by P!ssed Off » 05 Jan 2015 18:06
Mr AngrySchards#2 In 40 years of watching Reading, that was the worst performance in winning an away game I've ever seen,
Without Murray we are hopelessly lacking up front, it's imperative we either sign him or a decent alternative.
Steady defensively though
Was it even worse than Yeovil away last season?
by Nameless » 05 Jan 2015 20:14
Hoop Blah Out of interest Nameless, in what way did we bully the ref and in what way didn't it work for us?
Hoop Blah I'm confused on the lessons we can take from rugby too. Aren't we always being told that their respect and treatment of officials is exemplary? Surely they don't do anything to influence the judgements and decisions during a game?
by Ian Royal » 05 Jan 2015 20:22
by Nameless » 05 Jan 2015 20:36
by Royal Ginger » 05 Jan 2015 21:00
by Nameless » 05 Jan 2015 21:13
by 3points » 05 Jan 2015 22:50
by Harpers So Solid Crew » 06 Jan 2015 09:01
by Nameless » 06 Jan 2015 09:33
by Hoop Blah » 06 Jan 2015 09:41
Nameless Would love to see refs talking to players, but it would need players to be receptive to those conversations, and for them to understand things like the offside law and what handball is. Sadly I suspect if a ref tied to explain most decisions the players would just argue anyway.
I think you are right that there is probably some element of creating an element of doubt in the refs mind, but as I said I don't think generally it's as well thought out as that. But you can do that in better ways then screaming in the ref's face and throwing the ball away.
by West Stand Man » 06 Jan 2015 10:08
by Hoop Blah » 06 Jan 2015 10:13
West Stand Man I don't think anyone is diosagreeing with that. It is how you have that pop at the ref that we are disagreeing about. A robustly polite dig at a (perceived) poor decision is usually going to have a more positive impact than a rant. One antagonises the ref the other gives a reasonable chance that he has a think.
by Nameless » 06 Jan 2015 10:44
by Angry Shed Sex » 06 Jan 2015 11:37
by genome » 06 Jan 2015 12:48
by SCIAG » 06 Jan 2015 13:34
Hoop BlahIan Royal I see the difference professionally all the time. And you don't get to be a professional ref by being a shrinking violet who'll get bullied easily.
Acting the twat and being aggressive harms your chances of a good outcome. Being polite but assertive with a sense of humour will take you a long way.
Generally I'd agree, but in the heat of battle on a football pitch I'm really not sure I agree. I can't think of many occasions where I've seen players get the better decisions out of a ref because they've managed him well or been the more polite and respectful of the two teams.
by ZacNaloen » 06 Jan 2015 14:35
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